Grow closer and feel happier in your relationship

Do you ever feel like you’re having the same-old conversations over and over again? Or like you’re all out of fun date ideas, and don’t have enough time to connect well as a couple, anyway?

Have you ever looked at your partner and wondered if you really know them?

Get A roadmap

Deeper Dates For Couples presents a fun relationship-building roadmap—a blueprint for how to connect better and more meaningfully in just a 1-2 hours a week.

Written by a psychologist who specializes in stress, resilience, and relationships, Deeper Dates is a 12-week series for couples at any stage of their relationship who want to grow closer and stronger.

How it works

Using stories, humor, and dozens of practical tips, Deeper Dates For Couples will help you explore your personal strengths, sense of humor, communication styles, adventure-seeking, personality, and a number of different practices proven to make you happier and healthier.

Each of the 12 chapters is a “date”. Each chapter contains some reading, your task for the week, and an action plan full of discussion questions for your date.

what people are saying

My husband and I have had a stressful year. Our relationship was in rough shape and most of our conversations ended up with us arguing. Our first date night using Deeper Dates for Couples led to our first meaningful conversation in several months. Our friendship has grown deeper and we are both taking the time to get to know each other again after 15 years of marriage.J. Fey
This is a good tool for focusing your conversations together. Every marriage needs to be given attention to flourish, and this book has been helpful for us!Phyllis R. Byler
Practical. Doable. Fun. Get this book you won’t regret it.Dan A.

What you’ll learn

Here are some of the things you’ll learn during this series:

  • Your top five personal strengths. How you and your partner’s strengths complement each other, and how your differences can cause friction.
  • Whether you have the same sense of humor as your partner, and how important it really is for couples to share a sense of humor.
  • Whether you and your partner speak the same love language, and good ways to effectively speak different love languages.
  • Why trying new things good for us, and how can it help our relationship.
  • What your personalities are, whether opposites really attract, and what the best personality formula is for a happy couple.
  • Why feeling happy is good for us, and how you can learn to feel happier in life and love.

Who is this for?


It’s suitable for couples at any stage of their relationship. You can do this series when you’ve just started dating, or after you’ve been married for twenty years.

Free journal included


The print version of Deeper Dates contains plenty of space to jot down your notes and insights as you go along. This way, your book can become your own personal workbook and journal.

The kindle version contains instructions on where you can download a free, printable, Deeper Dates Journal to use during the series.

By the end


At the end of 12 weeks you will have had a lot of fun together as well as plenty of deep and meaningful conversations.

You will have learned new things about yourself and your partner (yes, no matter how long you’ve been together).

You will have created new memories and built a happier, stronger, closer connection with the most important person in your life.

Get your copy

Go to Amazon to pick up a copy (and one for your partner if you choose paperback) and let’s get started.